Another thing worth mentioning here is something I learned from selling software: the best leads are the ones you have made the first contact with, not the ones that found you by "shopping around"!
They assume (and rightfully so) that all the men worth contacting have already sent them a reply.
If you get the machine, leave a short message: "Hi Lisa! I wanted to talk to you but you're not there, so why don't you give me a call when you come back? After all, she made the same effort as you did and deserves to be treated respectfully.
At the end of the date tell her that she's a very nice girl but not really what you're looking for and wish her luck in finding Mr.
Because, as mentioned in chapter 1, the high quality girls will simply not have time to read all the replies they get. The truth is that if you get a reply to your first email it means that the woman liked it, probably read through your ad and is VERY interested to find more about you. (xxx) xxx-xxxx" Chapter 4 - The First Phone Call I don't think there are any misconceptions here so let's make it very clear: the purpose of the first phone call is to close for a date. Call during the evening but not too late (8pm works fine).
I found the first email to be the most crucial element of "online seduction". Questions start running through her mind: "Is he for real? The email you will get will have a lot of questions and you have to capitalize on her high interest level and move things forward. The mindset you should have is this: the Internet personals are nothing but a pool of potential phone numbers and first dates. After you answer her questions in the second email, you end it with a sentence like this: "Lisa, how about we have a little chat sometime? If someone answers the phone, ask to speak with her (don't assume she's the one picking up the phone). Chapter 5 - The First Date When you finally meet her you will immediately know if there's a chance or not.
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